Sue Eloise Henthorn
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Sue Henthorn - quoting some religious and spiritual verse

"Our pain in letting go is the honouring of the love which began in us.
 And which is now carried forth into all the winds of the skies and the tides of the seas, into the shining of the sun and the gentle light of the moon.
” Sue Henthorn

 

 
 

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 RELIGIOUS AND SPIRITUAL VERSE

Psalm 23 

       The lord is my shepherd;

      I shall not want,

      He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:

      He leadeth me beside the still waters.

      He restoreth my soul:

      He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for

      His name’s sake.

      Yea, though I walk through the valley

      Of the shadow of death,

      I will fear no evil:

      For thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff

      They comfort me.

      Thou preparest a table before me in the presence

      Of mine enemies:

      Thou anointest my head  with oil;

      My cup runneth over.

      Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me

      All the days of my life:

      And I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

      Amen

  

The Lords Prayer

Our Father who art in heaven

Hallowed be thy name

Thy Kingdom Come

Thy will be done

On Earth as it is in Heaven

Give us this day

Our daily bread

And forgive us our trespasses

As we forgive those

Who trespass against us

Lead us not into temptation

But deliver us from evil

For thine is the kingdom,

The power and the glory

Forever and ever

Amen.

 

Corinthians

 Love is patient, love is kind and envies no-one,

Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude,

Never selfish, nor quick to take offence,

Love keeps no score of wrongs

Does not gloat over the sins of others

But delights in the truth.

There is nothing love cannot face

There is no limit to it’s faith, it’s hopes and it’s endurance

Love will never come to an end in a word,

There are three things that last forever

Faith, hope and love

But the greatest of them all is love.

My sheep hear my voice

And I know them

And they follow me

And I give them eternal life,

And they shall never perish

And no one shall snatch them

Out of my hand.

John 10: 27 &


A Scottish Blessing

May the blessing of light be on you,

Light without and light within.

May the blessed sunlight shine on you like a great peat fire,
 
So that stranger and friend may come and warm himself at it.

And may light shine out of the two eyes of you,

Like a candle set in the window of a house,

Bidding the wanderer come in out of the storm.

And may the blessing of the rain be on you,

May it beat upon your Spirit and wash it fair and clean,

And leave there a shining pool

Where the blue of Heaven shines,

And sometimes a star.

And may the blessing of the earth be on you,

Soft under your feet as you pass along the roads,

 Soft under you as you lie out on it,

Tired at the end of day;

And may it rest easy over you when,

At last, you lie out under it.

May it rest so lightly over you

That your soul may be out from under it quickly;

Up and off and on its way to God.

author unknown

A Prayer for Today

Every day I need Thee, Lord

But this day especially

I need some extra strength

To face whatever is to be.

This day more than any day

I need to feel Thee near

To fortify my courage

And over come my fear

By myself I cannot meet

The challenge of the hour.

There are times when

Human creatures need

A higher power to help them

Bear - what must be borne

And so, dear Lord, I pray

Hold on to mine, my daughters

My family and my grandkids

 Trembling hands

And be with us here today.

Amen.

 

From The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayam, an astronomer-poet of early 12TH century Persia.

The first verse is:

The Moving Finger writes; and having writ,

Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit

Shall lure it back to cancel half a line,

Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.

The second verse is:

Ah Love! Could thou and I with Fate conspire

To grasp this sorry Scheme of Things entire,

Would not we shatter it to bits – and then

Re-mould it nearer to the Heart’s Desire!

 

Irish Blessing

May the road rise up to meet you

May the wind be always at your back

May the sun shine warm upon your face

And rains fall soft upon your fields

We’ll be thinking of you
 

Gone Home

God looked around his garden

And found an empty space.

He looked down upon the earth

And saw your tired face,

He put his arms around you

And lifted you to rest.

God’s garden must be beautiful

For he only takes the best.

He knows you were in pain,

He knew that you would never

Be well on earth again.

He saw the road was getting rough,

And the hills were hard to climb;

So he closed your weary eyelids

And whispered, “Peace be thine.”

Author unknown

 

Silent Tear

Each night we shed a silent tear

As we speak to you in prayer

To let you know we love you

And just how much we care

Take our million teardrops

Wrap them up in love

Then ask the wind to carry them

To you in heaven above.

Author unknown

 

The Cross in My Pocket

I carry a cross in my pocket

A simple reminder to me

Of the fact that I am a Christian

No matter where I may be.

This little cross is not magic

Nor is it a good luck charm

It isn’t meant to protect me

From every physical harm.

It’s not for identification

For all the world to see

It’s simply an understanding

Between my savior and me.

When I put my hand in my pocket

To bring out a coin or a key

The cross is there to remind me

Of the price He paid for me.

It reminds me, too, to be thankful

For my blessings day by day

And to strive to serve Him better

In all that I do and say.

It’s also a daily reminder

Of the peace and comfort I share

With all who know my Master

And give themselves to His care.

So, I carry a cross in my pocket

Reminding no-one but me

That Jesus Christ is Lord of my life

If only I’ll let him be.    

Anon

 

Adieu and Au Revoir

As you love me, let there be no mourning when I go,-

No tearful eyes, no hopeless sighs,

No woe,-nor even sadness!

Indeed I would not have you sad, for I myself shall be glad,

With the high triumphant gladness of a soul made free

Of God’s sweet liberty.

-No windows darkened; for my own

Will be flung wide as ne’er before, to catch the radiant inpour

Of love that shall be in full atone

For all the ills that I have done; and the good things left undone;

-no voices hushed; my own, full flushed

With an immortal hope, will rise in ecstasies of new born bliss

And joyful melodies.

Rather of your sweet courtesy, rejoice with me

At my soul’s loosing from captivity.

Wish me ‘Bon Voyage!’ as you do a friend

Whose joyous visit finds its happy end.

And bid me both ‘a Dieu’ and ‘Au Revoir’

Since though I come no more,

I shall be waiting there to greet you.

At His door.

John Oxenham

Poem of Life

Life is but a stopping place

A pause in what’s to be

A resting place along the road

To sweet eternity

We all have different journeys

Different paths along the way

We all are meant to learn some things

But never meant to stay…

Our destination is a place

Far greater than we know

For some the journey’s quicker

For some the journey’s slow

And when finally the journey ends

We’ll claim a great reward

And find and everlasting peace

Together with the Lord.

Author unknown   

 

Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity

To accept the things I

Cannot change

The courage to change

The things I can

And the wisdom to know

The difference

Anon

No More

There is no time that we could set

For parting…

We who must remain

Are never ready for such pain.

Ever our prayer would be “Not Yet!”

Not yet, dear Lord.

Another day,

Let us with our beloved stay

We must believe when falls the blow

That wisely, God, has willed it so.

It is beyond belief that you are gone,

That all our shared and doubled life is done

Now ashes in the wind,

No more your voice

Answers the telephone

No more your face

At the opening of the door

Those words…

No More.

Author unknown

 

Wings of the Angels

 A gentle wind blew cross the land

Reaching out to take a hand

For on the winds the angels came

Calling out a mother's name.

Left behind, the children's tears

Loving memories of the years

Of joy and love, a life well spent

And now to God a mother's sent.

On angel's wings, a heavenly flight

The journey home, towards the light

To those who weep, a life is gone

But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.

Author unknown

 

The Rose Beyond The Wall

A rose once grew where all could see,

Sheltered beside a garden wall,

And as the days passed swiftly by,

It spread its branches, straight and tall…

One day, a beam of light shone through

A crevice that had opened wide.

The rose bent gently towards its warmth

Then passed beyond to the other side…

Now, you who deeply feel its loss,

Be comforted…  

the rose blooms there,

Its beauty even greater now,

Nurtured by

God’s own loving care.

Author unknown

 

If Tomorrow Comes

If tomorrow starts without me

And I’m not there to see

If the sun should rise and find

Your eyes all filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry

The way you did today

While thinking of the many things

We didn’t get to say.

I know how much you loved me

As much as I love you

And each time you think of me

I know you’ll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me

Please try to understand

That an angel came and called my name

And took me by the hand

And said my place was ready

In heaven far above

And that I would have to leave behind

All those I dearly love.

But as I turned and walked away

A tear fell from my eye

For all my life I’d always thought

I didn’t want to die.

I had so much to live for

So much yet to do

It seemed almost impossible

That I was leaving you.

 I thought of all the yesterdays

The good times and the bad

The thought of all the love we shared

 And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday

Just even for a while

I’d say goodbye and kiss you

And maybe see you smile

But then I fully realised

That this could never be

For emptiness and memories

Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things

I might miss come tomorrow

I thought of you and when I did

 My heart was filled with sorrow.

So when tomorrow starts without me

Don’t think we’re far apart

For every time you think of me

I’m right here in your heart.

Author unknown

(circa 9,11)

Stairway to Heaven

Blowing kisses to Heaven

That’s what I can do

Every time I want to say

How much “I love you”

Blowing kisses to Heaven

I know that you love me

I am so blessed and so thankful

That God sent you to our family.

Everyone that met you

Claimed you as their own

Gentle, caring, so giving, so kind

A truest gift, wrapped from God’s heart to mine.

Now you are receiving

Blessings so deserved

And every time I think of you

I’ll blow kisses to Heaven

From my heart to yours.

Author unknown

Footprints in the Sand

One night a man had a dream.

He dreamed he was walking

Along the beach with the Lord.

Scenes from his life flashed across the sky

And he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,

one belonging to him

And the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life had flashed before him,

he recalled that at the lowest and saddest times

of his life there was only one set of footprints.
 
Dismayed, he asked, "Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,

you'd walk with me all the way.

I don't understand why, when I needed you most,

you would leave me."

The Lord replied, "My precious child.

I love you and I would never leave you.
 
During your times of trial and suffering

when you saw only one set of footprints..
.
That was when I carried you."

Author unknown

 

“THERE’S ALWAYS ANOTHER TOMORROW, HOWEVER DARK THE DAY,

THERE’S ALWAYS AN END TO SORROW, TIME WIPES OUR TEARS AWAY,

THERE’S ALWAYS A REASON FOR LIVING THOUGH SAD YOUR HEART MAY BE,

THERE’S ALWAYS ANOTHER HORIZON BEYOND THE ONE YOU SEE”

May You support me all the day long

Till the shades lengthen and the evening comes

And the busy world is hushed

And the fever of life is over

And my work is done.

Then in Your mercy

May you give me

A safe lodging

And a holy rest

And peace at the last.

Amen

(adapted – Cardinal Newman)

A Blessing For Absence

May you know that absence is full of tender presence

And that nothing is ever lost or forgotten.

May the absences in your life be full of eternal echo.

May you sense around you the secret

Elsewhere which holds the

Presences that have left your life.

May you be generous in your embrace of loss.

May the sore of your grief turn into

A well of seamless presence.

May your compassion reach out to the ones

We never hear from and may you have the

Courage to speak out for the excluded ones.

May you become the gracious

And passionate subject of your own life.

May you not disrespect your mystery

Through brittle words or false belonging.

May you be embraced by God in whom

Dawn and twilight are one and may your

Longing inhabit its deepest dreams

Within the shelter of the Great Belonging.

John O'Donohue

 

Butterfly Wings

Like a butterfly emerges

And unfolds its graceful wings,

A child grows and develops

With the love a mother brings.

I’m thankful for the times

When you encouraged me to try,

For God gave me my wings,

But Mum, you taught me how to fly.

Robin Fogle

 

The Bridge Beyond

There is a bridge that leads beyond

The world of time and space.

Through a green and peaceful valley

To a lovely dwelling place.

Where our loved ones find true happiness

And joys which never end.

Across the bridge that leads beyond

The peaceful valley’s bend.

Author Unknown

God’s love in action

A mum is God’s love in action

She looks with her heart

And feels with her eyes

A mum is the bank

Where children deposit

All their worries and hurt

A mum is the cement

That holds her family together

And her love lasts a lifetime.

Author unknown

 

Old Irish Blessing

May the road rise up to meet you.

May the wind always be at your back.

May the sun shine warm upon your face,

and rains fall soft upon your fields.

And until we meet again,

May God hold you in the palm of His hand

When You See

When you see birds on the wing

Know that my spirit soars with them

In graceful compliment to their flight.

When you see a special smile

Realise that I still smile with you

For all the wonderful times we shared.

When you hear roaring laughter

Think of all the funny things

That could never happen to anyone else but me.

When you hear a lovely song

Think of music, gatherings, holidays and parties,

The memories that can never be silenced. 

When you hug someone gently

Remember my touch

And know that I am hugging you

And keeping you close.

When you see a rainbow

And the sun shining through the raindrops

Remember the promises of God

And be assured

I am at peace and in His presence.

Lucy Linder

 

FOOTSTEPS OF ANGELS

When the hours of Day are numbered,

And the voices of the night

Wake the better soul, that slumbered,

To a holy, calm delight;

Ere the evening lamps are lighted,

And like phantoms grim and tall,

Shadows from the fitful firelight

Dance upon the parlour wall;

Then the forms of the departed

Enter at the open door;

The beloved, the true-hearted,

Come to visit me once more;

He, the young and strong, who cherished

Noble longings for the strife,

By the roadside fell and perished,

Weary with the march of life!

They, the holy ones and weakly,

Who the cross of suffering bore,

Folded their pale hands so meekly,

Spake with us on earth no more!

And with them the Being Beauteous,

Who unto my youth was given,

More than all things else to love me,

And is now a saint in heaven.

With a slow and noiseless footstep

Comes that messenger divine,

Takes the vacant chair beside me,

Lays her gentle hand in mine.

And she sits and gazes at me

\With those deep and gentle eyes,

Like the stars, so still and saint-like,

Looking downward from the skies.

Uttered not, yet comprehended,

Is the spirit’s voiceless prayer,

Soft rebukes, in blessings ended,

Breathing from her lips of air.

O, though oft depressed and lonely,

All my fears are laid aside,

If I but remember only

Such as these have lived and died!

Longfellow

 

I’m Free 

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free

I’m following the path God laid for me

I took God’s hand when I heard the call

I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day

To laugh, to love, to work or play

Tasks left undone must stay that way

I found that place at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void

Then fill it with remembered joy

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss

Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow

I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow

My life’s been full, I savoured much

Good friend’s good times, a loved one’s touch.

Perhaps my life seemed all too brief

Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief,

Lift up your heart and share with me

God wanted me now, God set me free.

Author unknown

Finding Your Heart

 Do not be afraid

For even now God knows the

Yearnings of your heart

And is sending you

His answers to your prayers

Be patient – you are not alone.

For the Lord will hold

You in his hands

And protect you

He sends his angels

Until such time

Your purpose is revealed to you.

Though you may not know

The ways of your journey

He is guiding you

With his gentle touch

Author unknown

To Those I Love

If I should ever leave you whom I love

To go along the silent way

Grieve not,

Nor speak of me with tears,

But laugh and talk

Of me as if I was beside you there.

(I’d come – I’d come, could I but find a way!

But would not tears and grief be barriers?)

And when you hear a song or

See a bird I loved,

Please do not let the thought of me be sad…

For I am loving you just as I always have…

You were so good to me!

There are so many things I wanted still

To do…

So many things to say to you…

Remember that I did not fear…

It was just leaving you that was so hard to face…

We cannot see beyond…

But this I know

I loved you so…

‘Twas heaven here with you!

Author unknown

  

Soul’s Whisper

Oft in quiet moments

My soul it speaks to me

I am filled with deep emotion

That sets my being free

So vivid are the images

Of life that come to me

So real the tremblings in my soul

Reveal how life could be,

If one could but capture

These moments, so divine

How precious would life be

Your soul, with God, entwined!

Author unknown

It’s Hard to See Tomorrow

It’s hard to see tomorrow

When someone you love is gone

And it’s harder still to realise

That your own life must go on

But the Lord won’t give you burdens

Which He knows you cannot bear,

And he will not leave you comfortless…..

You’ll always find Him there.

We’re all our Fathers children

Here on earth and up above

And your loved one is now walking

Close to God, surrounded by his love

Author Unknown

 

High Flight

Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth

And danced the skies on laughter silvered wings

Sunward I’ve climbed and joined the tumbling mirth

Of sun split clouds—and done a hundred things

You have not dreamed of; wheeled and soared and swung

High in the sunlit silence. Hovering there

I’ve chased the shouting wind along, and flung

My eager craft through footless halls of air;

Up, up the long delirious  burning blue

I’ve topped the windswept heights with easy grace,

Where never lark nor even eagle flew;

And while, with silent lifting mind I’ve trod

The high, un-trespassed sanctity of space

Put out my hand and touched the face of God.

Flight Officer John Gillespie McGee

 

Written Especially For You Mum

Play joyfully in the gardens of creation

Our precious Mum.

Rest peacefully while the sun nourishes

And revitalizes your soul.

May the beauty and fragrance of the
 
Flowers overwhelm your senses

And the birds lull you with your

Favourite song.

Until the soft winds whisper

It’s time to journey on…

And on...and on

Author unknown

 

When we walk to the edge of all the light we have

And take a step into the darkness of the unknown,

We must believe one of two things will happen —

There will be something solid for us to stand upon,

Or we will be taught to fly.

Anon

  

Safely Home

I am home in Heaven, dear ones

Oh so happy and so bright

There is perfect joy and beauty

In this everlasting light

All the grief and pain are over

Every restless tossing passed

I am now at peace forever

Safely home in Heaven at last

Did you wonder how I so calmly

Trod the valley of the shade?

Ah but the love of God illumined

Every dark and fearful glade

And He came Himself to meet me

In the way so hard to tread

And with His arm to lean on

Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely

For I love you dearly still

Try to look beyond Earth's shadows

Pray to trust our Father's will

There is work still waiting for you

So you must not idly stand

Do it now while life remaineth

You shall rest in our Father's land

When the work is all completed

He will gently call you home

Oh the rapture of that meeting

Oh the joy to see you come!

Author unknown

My First Christmas In Heaven

I see the countless Christmas trees

Around the world below

With tiny lights like Heaven’s stars

Reflecting on the snow. 

The sight is so spectacular,

Please wipe away the tear

For I am spending Christmas with

Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs

That people hold so dear

But the sounds of music can’t compare

With the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you

The joy their voices bring.

For it is beyond description,

To hear the angels sing.

Author Unknown

 

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,

And remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly

And listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter,

For always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;

It is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.

But let not this blind you to what virtue there is;

Many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.

Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity

And disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years,

Gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.

But do not distress yourself with imaginings.

Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars.

You have the right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

No doubt the Universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive she to be,

And whatever your labours and aspirations,

In the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham drudgery and broken dreams,

It is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

Kibran

A Message from Heaven

I am not so far from you

Just a little way beyond

Past the cares and past the pain

Far past my earthly bonds.

When you feel you miss me most

As years go drifting by

Each memory will prove to you

That our love will never die.

For memories are but a touch

From the Father’s gentle hand

To heal your pain and mend your hearts

To help you understand

That while I left you far too soon

I did not leave alone

For the father sent his angels

To gently take me home.

Take comfort when you think of me

Keep my love alight in your heart

And with the warmth of each memory

We will never be apart.

Alison Chambers Coxsy

 

If I Should Go Tomorrow

If I should go tomorrow

It would never be goodbye

For I have left my heart with you

So don’t you ever cry.

The love that’s deep within me

Shall reach you from the stars,

You’ll feel it from the heavens,

And it will heal the scars.

Author unknown

 

Bring us O Lord God, at our last awakening into the house and gate of heaven, to enter into that gate and dwell in that house, where there shall be no darkness nor dazzling, but one equal light; no noise nor silence, but one equal music; no fears nor hopes, but one equal eternity; in the habitations of Thy glory and dominion world without end. Amen

1571-1631 A reading from John Donne

Hail Mary,

Full of Grace,

The Lord is with thee.

Blessed art thou among women,

and blessed is the fruit

of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary,

Mother of God,

pray for us sinners now,

and at the hour of death.

Amen.

 

The Celestial Surgeon

If I have faltered more or less

In my great task of unhappiness;

If I have moved among my race

And shown no shining morning face;

If beams from happy eyes

Have moved me no; if morning skies,

Books, and my food, and summer rain

Knocked on my sullen heart in vain:-

Lord, thy most pointed pleasure take

And stab my spirit broad awake.

Author unknown

 

In Him

I spend the lonely daytime

In a garden among the trees

And I look up to heaven

And thank the Lord for giving me

Things such as these.

I spend the lonely evening

With the moon and stars above

As I look up to heaven

I thank Him for giving me

Such things to love.

For the life that I know

I thank Him so

For He taught me how to

Live laugh and cry

And I send a prayer

To Him way up there.

For teaching me just how to die.

I spend the silent midnight

With its shadows upon the wall

As I kneel in the darkness

I thank the Lord

For eyes to behold

The face of each friend

‘Till I’m told it’s journey’s end.

Yes, thank you Lord

For the life you’ve given

And as the shadows softly fall

I will be ready when You call.

Jack Davey

 

So Heart Be Still

 So heart be still:

What need our little life

Our human life to know,

If God hath comprehension?

In all the dizzy strife

Of things both high and low

God hideth His intention.

God knows, His will

Is best. The stretch of years

Which wind ahead, so dim

To our imperfect vision,

Are clear to God. Our fears

Are premature: In Him

All time hath full provision.

 

Then rest; until

God moves to lift the veil

From our impatient eyes,

When, as the sweeter features

Of life’s stern face we hail,

Fair beyond all surmise

God’s thought around His creatures

Our mind shall fill.

Author unknown

 

The Traveller

She has put on invisibility.

Dear Lord, I cannot see---

But this I know although the road ascends

And passes from my sight,

That there will be no night;

That You will take her gently by the hand

And lead her on Along the road of life that never ends,

And she will find it is not death but dawn.

I do not doubt that You are there as here,

And you will hold her dear.

Our life did not begin with birth,

It is not of the earth;

And this that we call death, it is no more

Than the opening and closing of a door---

And in Your house how many rooms must be

Beyond this one where we rest momentarily.

Dear Lord, I thank you for the faith that frees,

The love that knows it cannot lose its own;

The love that, looking through the shadows, sees

That You and she and I are ever one

James Dillet Freeman

 

She Is Just Away

You cannot say, you must not say

That she is dead, she is just away!

With a cheery smile

And a wave of the hand

She has wandered into an unknown land

And left us dreaming how very fair

It needs must be

Since she lingers there;

So think of her as faring on, as dear

In the love of There as the love of Here,

Think of her still as the same, and say

She is not dead, she is just away.

Adapted from the writings of

James Whitcomb Riley

 

A Prayer in Bereavement

We give them back to You,

Dear Lord who gave them to us

Yes, as You do not lose them in giving,

So we have not lost them by their return.

Not as the world gives, You give,

O Lover of souls.

What you give, You take not away;

For what is Yours is ours always,

If we are Yours.

And life is eternal and love is immortal;

And death is only a horizon and a horizon

Is nothing save the limit of our sight.

Lift us up, JESUS, that we may see farther.

Cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly.

Draw us closer to Yourself that

We may know ourselves nearer to

our beloved who are with You.

And while You prepare a place for us,

Prepare us for that happy

Place that, where they are

And You are, we too, may be.

Through Jesus Christ, our Lord,

Amen.

 

From John 5 – Verses 24-27

Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life.

Verily, verily, I say unto you, the hour is coming, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God: and they that hear shall live.

For as the Father hath life in himself; so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself;

And hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of man.

And from Romans 14 - Verses 7-9

For none of us liveth to himself and no man dieth to himself.

For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord’s.

For to this end Christ both died, and rose, and revived, that he might be Lord both of the dead and living.

While Waiting For Thee

Don’t weep at my grave, for I am not there,

I’ve a date with a butterfly to dance in the air.

I’ll be singing in the sunshine, wild and free,

Playing tag with the wind, while I’m waiting for thee.

We are as the wings of a butterfly,

Bound together with the love of God.

Author Unknown

 

I Sent You Each A Memory

I know how much you miss me,

I see the pain inside your heart.

But I am not so far away,

We really aren’t apart.

So be happy for me dear ones,

You know I hold you dear.

And be glad I’m spending Christmas

With Jesus Christ this year.

 I sent you each a special gift,

From my heavenly home above,

I sent you each a memory

Of my undying love.

After all love is a gift more precious

Than pure untarnished gold

It was always most important

In the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other,

As my Father said to do.

For I can’t count the blessing or love

He has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and

Wipe away that tear.

Remember I am spending Christmas with

Jesus Christ this year.

Nora Donston

 

If Tears Could Build a Stairway

If tears could build a stairway

And memories were a lane

We would walk right up to heaven

And bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken

No time to say goodbye

You were gone before we knew it

And only God knows why

Our hearts still ache in sadness

And secret tears still flow

What it means to lose you

No one can ever know

But now we know you want us

To mourn for you no more

To remember all the happy times

Life still has much in store

Since you’ll never be forgotten

We pledge to you today

A hallowed place within our hearts

Is where you’ll always stay.

Author unknown

 

When Sorrow Comes

 When sorrow comes,

God’s promises

Are shining rays of hope

That break through cloudy skies

To bring us warmth

And help us cope.

He promises to love us

And to hear our every prayer

To comfort us and guide us,

And to always just be there.

He promises to give us strength

To weather any storm

To be someone we can lean on

Who will keep us safe and warm.

For God will never leave us

All alone when skies are grey

As long, as we believe and trust

His love will light the way.

Author unknown

 

Abide With Me

Abide with me; fast falls the eventide;

The darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide;

When other helpers fail, and comforts flee,

Help of the helpless, oh abide with me.

Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day;

Earth’s joys dim, its glories pass away;

Change and decay all around I see;

O Thou who changest not, abide with me.

I fear no foe with Thee at hand to bless;

Ills have no weight, and tears have no bitterness;

Where is death’s sting? where grave thy victory?

I triumph still, if Thou abide with me.

Hold then Thy cross before my closing eyes;

Shine through the gloom, and point me to the skies;

Heaven’s morning breaks, and earth’s vain shadows flee;

In life, in death, oh Lord, abide with me.

Henry Francis Lyte

  

Comfort

 Another leaf has fallen,

Another soul is gone

But still we have God’s promises

In every robin’s song,

For he is in his heaven

And though he takes away

He always leaves to mortals

The bright sun’s kindly ray,

He leaves the fragrant blossoms

And lovely forests, green

And gives us new found comfort

When we on Him will lean.

Author unknown

Ecclesiastes 3: 18

To everything there is a season,

And a time to every purpose under the heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die;

A time to plant, and a time to pluck up

That which is planted;

A time to kill and a time to heal;

A time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh;

A time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to cast away stones,

And a time to gather stones together;

A time to embrace, and a time to

Refrain from embracing;

A time to get, and a time to lose;

A time to keep, and a time to cast away;

A time to rend, and a time to sew;

A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate;

A time of war and a time of peace.

 

You Never Said Goodbye

You never said I'm leaving

You never said goodbye

You were gone before I knew it,

And only God knew why.

A million times I needed you,

A million times I cried

If love alone could have saved you,

You never would have died

In life I loved you dearly

In death I love you still

In my heart you hold a place,

That no one will ever fill

It broke my heart to lose you,

But you didn't go alone

For part of me went with you,

The day God took you home.

Author unknown

Fireman’s Prayer

When I am called to duty, God

Wherever flames may rage

Give me the strength to save some life

Whatever be its age.

Help me embrace a little child
before it is too late

Or save an older person from

The horror of that fate,

Enable me to be alert

And to hear the weakest shout

And quickly and efficiently

To put that fire out.

I want to fill my calling

And give the best in me

To guard my every neighbour

And protect his property.

And if, according to Your will,

I have to lose my life

Please bless with Your protecting hand

My children and my wife.

Author unknown

Memories Deep in My Heart

 Happy little memories

Go flitting through my heart

And in all my thoughts and memories

I always seem to find

The picture of your face, Mother

The memory of your touch

And all the other little things

I’ve come to treasure so much,

You cannot go beyond my thoughts

Or leave my love behind

Because I keep you in my heart

And forever on my mind.

Precious little memories

Of little things we’ve done

Make the very darkest day

A bright and happy one.

                                            Tender little memories

Of some word or deed

Give us strength and courage

When we are in need.

Blessed little memories

Help us bear the cross

And soften all the bitterness

Of failure and the loss.

Priceless little memories

Are treasures without price

And through the gateway of the heart

They lead to paradise.

God needed an angel in heaven

So he called my dear mother above

But she’s only as far as my heart

And she lives as before in my heart.

Helen Steiner Ross

 

Promised Land

Death is just another step

                                                                                         Along life’s changing way,

No more than just a gateway

 To a new and better day,

And parting from our loved ones

 Is much easier to bear

When we know they are waiting

 For us to join them there

For it is on the wings of death

That living soul takes flight

In the promised land of God

When there shall be no night.

Helen Steiner Ross

 

The House of Prayer

Just close your eyes

And open your heart

And feel your worries

And cares depart,

Just yield yourself

To the Father above

And let Him hold you

Secure in his love.

So when you are tired,

Discouraged, and blue,

There’s always one door

That is open to you-

That is the door

To the house of prayer

And you’ll find God waiting

To meet you there.

Helen Steiner Ross

Gone Home

God looked around his garden

And found an empty space.

He looked down upon the earth

And saw your tired face,

He put his arms around you

And lifted you to rest.

God’s garden must be beautiful

For he only takes the best.

He knows you were in pain,

He knew that you would never

Be well on earth again.

He saw the road was getting rough,

And the hills were hard to climb;

So he closed your weary eyelids

And whispered, “Peace be thine.”

A SMALL REQUEST

Dear God,

We pray that you will support all those who are suffering from cancer, those with it,
those whose loved ones have lost their battle with it,
and those who are feeling any fear that this disease may strike themselves or their loved ones.
We ask you especially to help those who are working in research to find a real cure for this disease
as we remember Jesus who helped all those who came to Him so many years ago
when He walked the roads and streets of the land where He was born in the stable,
and we offer this prayer in His name.

Amen

May the blessing of light be upon you,

Light on the outside, light on the inside.

With God’s sunlight shining on you,

May your heart glow with warmth like a turf fire

That welcomes friends and strangers alike.

May the light of the Lord shine from your eyes

Like a candle in a window

Welcoming the weary traveller.

May the blessing of God’s soft rain be on you

Falling gently on your head, refreshing your soul

With the sweetness of little flowers newly blooming.

May the strength of the winds of Heaven bless you

Carrying the rain to wash your spirit clean,

Sparkling after in the sunlight.

May the blessing of God’s earth be on you,

And as you walk the roads,

May you always have a kind word for those you meet.

May you understand the strength and power of God.

In a thunderstorm in winter

And the quiet beauty of creation

In the calm of a summer sunset.

And may you come to realize that,

Insignificant as you may seem in this great Universe,

You ‘ARE’ an important part of God’s plan.

May he watch over you

And keep you safe from harm.

Author unknown